I see life as three mirrors.
The first mirror is how others see you.
The second mirror is how you see yourself
And The third mirror is how you feel others see you.
We live in a planet full of humans. Whatever we see around today be it a restaurant , a gadget , places of worship or even a belief or a tradition ,they are all built by us, humans.
you might feel you are a nobody in school/ college/ office you are still in relation to someone.
you are still a brother/sister/mother/father/friend. Therefore never feel that you are inferior to anyone because the importance that you hold on this planet cannot be held by anyone else. you are a different personality , if you die tomorrow , you will never die alone.
You should feel your own importance inorder to make your importance felt in life. You might be shy or a very outgoing person but that is what you perceive of yourself. And what you think about youself matters more than what other think about you .
If you want to be happy , you are responsible for making yourself happy .
How do we differentiate between a happy and a sad person?
A smiling face?
Arent we judging them now? judging whether that person is a happy one or sad one?
Exactly , this is what brings me to the third mirror.
You might feel that you are not a very judgmental person then why is the other person judging you ? the truth is that the human psychology works that way . We are judging everything 24*7
99% of the population is usually worried about what others think about them .It is their job to judge you, to notice things that is why god has given us sense organs -nose,ears,eyes,tongue and skin so that we perceive things and judge what is best for us.
The only mirror which should be of utmost importance for you is the second one. HOW YOU SEE YOURSELF.
You want to be a happy person?
Smile. Look into the mirror and smile. that will do the magic.
Laugh more often
you want to be overloaded with work even though you have none
tell you self OH MY GOD i have so much of work , i have to submit so many assignments or have too many chores to do. you psyche will automatically make you feel you are over stressed and you will end up looking stressed.
Its all in your mind and what your brain is a workshop , a workshop which can make the deadliest imaginations or put you to ease,
I believe everything that we do happen twice , first in our minds when we think that we are going to do it and second when we actually implement it.
The first mirror is how others see you.
The second mirror is how you see yourself
And The third mirror is how you feel others see you.
We live in a planet full of humans. Whatever we see around today be it a restaurant , a gadget , places of worship or even a belief or a tradition ,they are all built by us, humans.
you might feel you are a nobody in school/ college/ office you are still in relation to someone.
you are still a brother/sister/mother/father/friend. Therefore never feel that you are inferior to anyone because the importance that you hold on this planet cannot be held by anyone else. you are a different personality , if you die tomorrow , you will never die alone.
You should feel your own importance inorder to make your importance felt in life. You might be shy or a very outgoing person but that is what you perceive of yourself. And what you think about youself matters more than what other think about you .
If you want to be happy , you are responsible for making yourself happy .
How do we differentiate between a happy and a sad person?
Arent we judging them now? judging whether that person is a happy one or sad one?
Exactly , this is what brings me to the third mirror.
You might feel that you are not a very judgmental person then why is the other person judging you ? the truth is that the human psychology works that way . We are judging everything 24*7
99% of the population is usually worried about what others think about them .It is their job to judge you, to notice things that is why god has given us sense organs -nose,ears,eyes,tongue and skin so that we perceive things and judge what is best for us.
The only mirror which should be of utmost importance for you is the second one. HOW YOU SEE YOURSELF.
You want to be a happy person?
Smile. Look into the mirror and smile. that will do the magic.
Laugh more often
you want to be overloaded with work even though you have none
tell you self OH MY GOD i have so much of work , i have to submit so many assignments or have too many chores to do. you psyche will automatically make you feel you are over stressed and you will end up looking stressed.
Its all in your mind and what your brain is a workshop , a workshop which can make the deadliest imaginations or put you to ease,
I believe everything that we do happen twice , first in our minds when we think that we are going to do it and second when we actually implement it.
Very well written. :)
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