The tree named relationship.

Human biengs build and live relationships. They put more efforts in building a relationship than nurturing it.

Cutting the tree called relationship when the bark starts getting thicker is a self defence mechanism that they go through. 

They tend to forget they push away the people who care and love them the most. 

Relationships are a very integral part of a person's growth and peace of mind. Attaching to a certain person makes a person more aware about himself/herself. 

Just like meditation helps you reconnect with yourself and reconnect with your actions in the past , relationships help you know you and the reason for your actions.

Take a minute to remember every person in your life who has made a difference and made you who you are today. 

I bet you are related to them. Maybe through past actions you mite have cut the bark of the tree called relationship but  remember the roots are still there in the soil. 

If you give the tree enough warmth and water you can again grow it back to the height that it had attained earlier. 

It mite take sometime but dont let go of it because of your insecurity, inhibitions and defensive nature.

Life beyond your boundaries

A regular routine, same surroundings and same kind of people throughout your life will not teach you all that you should learn inorder to evolve and grow as a person.

It is important to come out of your cormfort zone and visit places of life where you would not normally go. Your parents or well wishers cannot take you . 

When you meet new people and live their life or live with them for a few days , you understand the beauty of different tastes and colours that god has made. 

We all are the same yet different in our own special ways. 

And how we mould our thinking and lives is in our hands. 

Pledge to Be different by experiencing Different and you will see different. 

Entry to exit

There is always a reason as to why people associate with you. You might feel that you love someone unconditionally and will do anything for them , make endless sacrifices when the time comes to sacrifice. We are 99% of the times wrong. It is true that when somebody helps us in need  or is just there for us even otherwise , as social animals, we do have emotions and we wish to give back the affection through our sacrifices yet we only consider it and not actually make the sacrifice.

There is a reason why you have friends , teachers , collegues. They all are related to your needsand they   satisfy them.

There is only one relation , that is the relation of blood which nobody questions yet there is a story to it as well. 

Your parents brought you to this world to extend their family and to continue their legacy. 

You come in this world alone yet when you leave this world you take so many associations and relations with you. You definately make an exit alone but you take feelings , emotions and if lucky souls  with you.