Saturday, January 9, 2016

Direct the Direction

I believe people are not borne leaders. Leaders are created by the people who have led them in life.
Even the leaders you look upto need mentors to direct them to the correct path.  We live in  a world of social beings , if one leads the other today , tomorrow the person led yesterday might lead someone else and the link keeps getting bigger.

We decide our own direction however we may choose to either walk the road already built or build our own roads. It depends on our risk taking capacity and the intensity of belief in ourselves.

I am a strong believer of the saying "you shall reach where you are destined to reach " . However, i also believe that it is your actions which create the destiny .Your actions and your luck play a major factor in your destination. Whatever you do to someone today shall eventually come back to you but it is in your luck which decides when it does whether good or bad.

The most an individual can do is have faith. Have faith in himself and the world around that whatever the circumstances may be however his karma will treat him he shall bear the consequences and swim through them whether good or bad.

A person should never stop walking even if it is dark and he is unaware of the surroundings and the path he is walking on because ultimately he mite reach somewhere , somewhere where it is less
darker and  he can plan his journey ahead. Also if he stops walking , the probability of attack increases. It is always easier to attack a static object than a moving one.

So direct your direction , keep moving forward however slow it is but keep walking forward.

Road from Importance to Indifference

The world is built on relationships. We build relationships everyday consciously or unconsciously. 
What is a relationship?
A relationship is a link. It mite be a link between you and an another person or it might be a relationship between you and a non-living object.

There are alot of feelings which emerge out of a relationship and the feeling or the emotion gives a meaning to the relationship. You start feeling the importance of the person/thing in your life and cannot imagine your life without it. You start getting used to it and eventually it becomes a part of your everyday life.

Another feeling which comes gradually is the feeling of taking someone/something for granted. This is a normal tendency with every living being to start taking things which are a part of their everyday routine for granted. 
When we wake up we take it for granted that we shall go to the washroom and freshen up/ brush your teeth. 
A dog, when meets a new person, takes his owner for granted and spends most of the time with the new person. 
A child , when he gets used to the world around him takes his mother for granted and feels as if he doesn't not need her protection anymore. 

We all take our relationships for granted. We understand their importance so much at a point of time that we donot want to let go off it however when few years pass by we take the same thing for granted that before we realize our indifference towards it, its gone. 

Value your relationships , value everybody's feelings because if you feel that you have them ,so do they..