Map your life

Some of us have our goals clear
Some of us don't know where to go with that fear
Stay in the zone walk that path
It mite take you there, where you belong.

Most of us don't have a goal in mind we haven't decided a clear destination in mind.
The key to find your destination is to work hard in whatever opportunity comes your way. Give you 100% wherever you feel it relates to your interest and explore yourself in that area.
You will discover a lot of new things , new deep seated skills which you were unaware of and gradually you will define your own path to your destination.

When life does not show you a clear path it is time for you to know that you should build your own paths.
Building your own paths can be risky because you never know where the road mite just break but it is a beautiful way to learn and be more successful than anyone in your own eyes.

When you see yourself as a successful person in your own eyes, nobody can take that success from you.

Define your own path, Define your own
Glory when life doesn't show you where you have to go.

Plastics of happiness

How do we differentiate between two people who are almost equally good at athletics?
How do we differentiate between people who are almost equally good at singing or dancing?

Its through the trophies and certificates they have received. Isn't it? Or how Heavy their CV is.

We live in a world which is full of people who judge you by the number of trophies or certificates you have won.
In your student life a major incentive for you to participate in various clubs and activities is the piece of glossy paper with your name printed on it. We run after the materialistic gains in life rather than focusing on the knowledge and experience we get out of it.

We decorate our houses with the trophies that we can flaunt around when our friends and relatives come home.
Some of us excel in each field that we participate in however some of us do not due to lack of focus or luck at times.
But that should not stop us from trying.
Trophies is just sought of a morale boost that you have achieved something and pushes you to achieve more in life.

Its amazing how plastic can do wonders in our lives and teach us ,motivate us to do better.

Turning Tables

Positions, responsibilities ,Recognitions a kind of ego boost that all of us need an get at some point of our lives.

We should never forget our roots from where we had started our journey once we feel we have reached the Zenith.
We never do. It is a myth that we are at the top. It might take you uncountable efforts to reach where you feel you are at the top but it takes a fraction of that uncountable efforts to come down  lower to the place from where you had initially started.

We all should remember to stay grounded and remember our roots. We should always help others not forgetting  our own priorities of course because one day while serving others and fulfilling their priorities we might end up killing our own. People will move on after satisfying their needs or their Greed's but you will remain there itself.  It is Important to be humble and generous but it is equally important to be emotionally intelligent .

You might be at the delivering end of the table today but remember even when you are at the highest rung of your organization  ,there are people waiting for you to commit that one mistake which would turn the table around.
Be efficient and regular with your duties . staying regular with your duties and keeping your eyes and ears open is the best way to retain your position.
There might be people hierarchically above and below you , you should never take them as above or below you But equal. When in your mind you give each other an equal status you will end up behaving in same  manner as well by giving every person their due respect. Today you might be the person ordering around because you are regular and well versed with your duties but tomorrow you might not.

Three mirrors

I see life as three mirrors.

The first mirror is how others see  you.
The second mirror is how you see yourself
And  The third mirror is how you feel others see you.

We live in a planet full of humans. Whatever we see around today be it a  restaurant , a gadget , places of worship or even  a belief or a tradition ,they are all built by us, humans.
you might  feel you are a nobody in school/ college/ office you are still in  relation to someone.
you are still a brother/sister/mother/father/friend. Therefore never feel that you are inferior to anyone because  the importance that you hold on this planet cannot be held by anyone else. you are a different personality , if you die tomorrow , you will never die alone.

You should feel your own importance inorder to make your importance felt in life. You might be shy or a very outgoing person but that is what you perceive of yourself. And what you think about youself matters more than what other think about you .
If you want to be happy , you are responsible for making yourself happy .
How do we differentiate between a happy and a sad person?
A smiling face?
Arent we judging them now? judging whether that person is a happy one or sad one?
Exactly , this is what brings me to the third mirror.
You might feel that you are not a very judgmental person then why is the other person judging you ? the truth is that the human psychology works that way . We are judging everything 24*7
99% of the population is usually worried about what others think about them .It is their job to judge you, to notice things that is why god has given us sense organs -nose,ears,eyes,tongue and skin so that we perceive things and judge what is best for us.

The only mirror which should be of utmost importance for you is the second one. HOW YOU SEE YOURSELF.
You want to be a happy person?
Smile. Look into the mirror and smile. that will do the magic.
Laugh more often

you want to be overloaded with work even though you have none
tell you self OH MY GOD i have so much of work , i have to submit so many assignments or have too many chores to do. you psyche will automatically make you feel you are over stressed and you will end up looking stressed.

Its all in your mind and what your brain is a workshop , a workshop which can make the deadliest imaginations or put you to ease,

I believe everything that we do happen twice , first in our minds when we think that we are going to do it and second when we actually implement it.

Architects of future curtain their pasts

Your past is a good place to visit once in a while but not  a good place to stay .

We all have our dark secrets, our pasts , be it good memories or memories which make us sad. 

memories which illuminate us or memories which dampen our feelings.Some people become a very integral part of our lives but it is not necessary that they will continue with them forever. People grow and people move on , life is dynamic and that is the best part about it. 

We meet so many people in life and they can either be a blessing or a lesson. You may  end up going to bed thinking about someone but remember there is someone out there who goes to bed everyday thinking about you too. So be better human beings and be a blessing for others rather than being a lesson. 

Many a times we run from our past for varied reasons.If we have an opportunity to  meet someone from  our past we rather try to escape it than face it. Maybe we don't want to let the other person know how we feel about about them or we are too worried about them judging us about how we are now in comparison to how we were in the past. 

We should understand the power of time.Time changes everyone . time is ticking for everyone not just you but for them as well. if you have changed over a period of time , so have they .

We need to set ourselves free from the claws of our past and live in the present so that we can be the architects of our future.