Fading importance

Man is an emotional animal. Emotions lead to feelings and feelings lead to relationships.

When we like somebody we tend to be attracted towards them and when the attraction is mutual , we tend to enter into relationships. 

Relationships give us an edge of others who are merely attracted towards the person we like. 

Relationships give us a sense of superiority in their lives and hence more importance. 

As man is a social animal and feelings build up everytime he sees a new person whether good or bad , our priorities tend to change. 

We want to feel important in every relations's lives and that is the reason why feelings such as frustration and dejection build up. Therfore leading to breaking of bonds and relationships. 

Yet a person who is once in a relationship  with someone wishes to ,still feel the same level of importance in their lives and takes a long time , sometimes more than expected to move on. 

Trust yourself

It is true that trust doesnt come easy. For some of us , it does. We suddenly become too happy about a new relationship and start trusting even before we completely know that person.

World is full of people with selfish motives. Some people are hardwired like that and some become like that due to their recent experiences. One should learn from their mistakes and not be foolish and trust people blindly too soon.

Everytime someone betrays your trust you feel a part of you has withered away.

One should make oneself believe that no matter who and how many people betray your trust , it is always a learning experience for you to not make the same mistake again.

If one trusts oneself ,he/she doesnot need anybody else. One person is enough and that is you ,yourself.