Each one of us faces insecurity. We might be insecure about our jobs or friendships/relationships. We always wish to have the perfect life , the perfect job ,the perfect set of friends and the perfect relationship.
We never worried about the toy being snatched away from us.
What is perfect? Definately what sounds best to us and matches us and our needs or should i say greed?
We do tend to believe that we live in a hypothetical world and if we have something which is perfect for us, our rational side of the brain tells us that it will definately come to an end! Then why not i end it myself early , earlier than it is meant to end so that i donot hurt myself because.... I want the perfect life.
We all become rational as we grow up and learn how to protect ourselves. We protect ourselves so much that it becomes a habit and before anything wrong can happen to us ,we wear the shield inorder to protect ourselves.
When we were babies we didnot wear that shield and we braved the world fearlessly. We never worried about the toy that gave us so much of happiness and which brought a huge smile on our faces or made us spring up with joy , would one day go away.
We never worried about the toy being snatched away from us.
We enjoyed our present and didnot worry about our future.
If today you have that toy in your hand, enjoy it ,you dont need to be rational and let it go just because you think that one day it will have to leave you. Its Yours and you will decide whether it will stay or has to go. It shall never leave you until you leave it and i am sure you dont want to leave it. Live your present and dont let your past mistakes haunt you or your future inhibitions hold you back. There is a reason why past is called past and the present is called 'present', it is a gift from god to you. Enjoy and cherish your present and write your future with a smile and positive attitude.
