The breeze in your life

Emotions come from feelings , Feelings come from our heart.
Every human being is blessed with  a heart , a heart that beats for love , a heart that beats for acceptance.
We meet uncountable people in our lives from the day we step into this world starting with our mother, who gives us birth and the doctor who helps in delivery.
Do we remember the doctor?
All of us know the answer to that question.
Do we worry each day how that doctor  must be doing now, where would he/she be at this hour of the day, whether he is successful or not in his field?
The answer is no to all these questions.
There is a reason for me to write these questions, the reason is that none of us care about that very person , is why we donot let our minds pay attention to that person's life.
It is you who lets people enter your life , it is you who lets people affect you, you allow your heart to have feelings for a person , turn those feelings into emotions.
We are the master of our lives, if we donot want to talk to a particular person, The cell phone is in our hands and it is us who decide whether we want to accept their call or not.
Similarly ,  it is us who let people enter our heart.

BELIEF,NOT A MATTER OF CHOICE BUT OF CONVICTION.

 


BELIEF - A small word , just 6 words long. It is a word full of power.
Power that all of us want , all of us want to have the power to rule on everybody's life.
We want the power to run an organisation , everybody strives for a better post at their work places , in their institutions.
The word power is nothing when belief does not support it.
Inorder to attain power, the belief in oneself is the most essentail componet to achieve success throughout the journey.
Inorder to reach a destination you need to first DREAM it .
When you dream it, you need to believe in your dreams inorder to achieve it.
Belief turns your way of looking at things. It changes your preceptions.
At the end it is all a game of perceptions.
IF you perceive something, your mind starts believing it , and when you believe in something you actions are controlled by your belief in your mind.
Believe in yourself

Believe in your dreams inorder to achieve them.
Knowledge is always not enough to reach where you aspire to reach , the right attitude and BELIEF are the essential ingredients.

A life with No Limits

 
A life with no limits , is the life i wish to live
No stopping,No boundaries
I wish to fly , I wish to swim through the ocean
full of opportunities , full of progress
I wish to learn and to grow
May god never take that wish to row
inorder to prosper, you need to learn to learn!
god can only show you doors ,job to open them is your concern.


Fear of being judged , only hinders your growth
people will talk today and talk tomorrow
but the opportunity you have today might not come tomorrow
Your probable success might turn into a bunch of sorrows
you will end up regretting, Oh i wish i hadn't fallen for that farrow


Its never too late to start afresh
But it's time to introspect
what I want myself to be, what I see myself as
The opportunities are plenty ,No time to wait
for it to knock or someone to ask.

ABRAHAN LINCOLN'S LETTER TO HIS SON'S TEACHER

He will have to learn, I know,
that all men are not just,
all men are not true.
But teach him also that
for every scoundrel there is a hero;                                        
that for every selfish Politician,
there is a dedicated leader…
Teach him for every enemy there is a friend,

Steer him away from envy,
if you can,
teach him the secret of
quiet laughter.

Let him learn early that
the bullies are the easiest to lick…
Teach him, if you can,
the wonder of books…
But also give him quiet time
to ponder the eternal mystery of birds in the sky,
bees in the sun,
and the flowers on a green hillside.

In the school teach him
it is far honourable to fail
than to cheat…
Teach him to have faith
in his own ideas,
even if everyone tells him
they are wrong…
Teach him to be gentle
with gentle people,
and tough with the tough.

Try to give my son
the strength not to follow the crowd
when everyone is getting on the band wagon…
Teach him to listen to all men…
but teach him also to filter
all he hears on a screen of truth,
and take only the good
that comes through.

Teach him if you can,
how to laugh when he is sad…
Teach him there is no shame in tears,
Teach him to scoff at cynics
and to beware of too much sweetness…
Teach him to sell his brawn
and brain to the highest bidders
but never to put a price-tag
on his heart and soul.

Teach him to close his ears
to a howling mob
and to stand and fight
if he thinks he’s right.
Treat him gently,
but do not cuddle him,
because only the test
of fire makes fine steel.
 

Let him have the courage
to be impatient…
let him have the patience to be brave.
Teach him always
to have sublime faith in himself,
because then he will have
sublime faith in mankind.

This is a big order,
but see what you can do…
He is such a fine little fellow,
my son!

What if I Fall? Oh my darling , What if you fly?

The fear of losing , is the Biggest fear  of our subconscious mind whether we agree or not.
Can you think of someone who is so confident that would make you think twice before approaching him/her?
All of us can think of that one person , who seems so confident , so full of attitude. We prejudge people even before we talk to them. Looking at the credentials of a person, look at their success rate , it makes us feeel that we donot have the ability to do what they can do, we are not as confident as they are.

What if you feel you are not confident enough?
The first step to success is introspection. If you can introspect and find out what is lacking in you to be whom you want to be, you are on the right path.

The most confident person , that you can imagine right now while reading this article, went through the same thoughts that you go through. God has made all of us equally equipped with the world. It is upon us , how we use the tools.


It is very important to grab an opportunity first inorder to nail it. The first step to win a particular competition is to enroll yourself in it. The first step to ace an exam is to buy the book for the same. The reason why people feel they cannot do a particular thing is because they ake themselves believe that they donot have the ability to do it.
My question is how can you consider yourself as a non potential contender when you haven't even tried to  move in that direction.

Successful people are those who try.
You can only achieve something if you try.
And if you fall , try harder


 

ADD HEAT TO YOUR LIFE, ZEAL TO DO SOMETHING, OPEN THE DOOR AND EXPLORE.

Life is full of challenges, Full of hurdles.We have to face new challenges everyday .A positive vision involves how we accept those challenges and transform them into prospects.
There are always two sides of a story , the positive and the negative. It is very important to learn and assimilate the art of viewing the positive angle of each story.

We are humans, all of us run in our own race against time.We want acceptance ,we want recognition and all of us agree to it. Many a times,99% of the times people give themselves the benefit of any situation however much they love the person infront of them. This is what brings the negativity in between the relationship.
Have you ever wondered why?
Do you really think , if you were in their position, you would have prioritized them over your own benefit?
If you feel bad that they have made a decision which benefits them over you and this changes your attitude,then the problem is not in them , but in you.
They are not being negative, YOU are being negative here.
You wonder Why?
You donot respect their decision and their growth . What is the difference in you and them and How can you expect the same from them?
You are responsible for your life, you have to grow yourself rather than being dependant on someone else to help you grow.

It is very rightly said that even god can't help those who are not willing to help themselves. Miracles don't happen on their own. Miracles happen when you lead them to a way , which makes them happen.

Lets take a very simple example of making tea.
We cannot make tea by just adding the ingredients to a container. Unless we provide some heat to it .

You have to add that heat to your life, the ZEAL to do something . If you are positive that you have what it takes to be WHO you want to be , nobody can stop you . Don't let the positivity fade away and remember if one door closes , it is only because the other door is waiting for you to open and explore the world OUTSIDE.

Dreams and Opportunities

My dreams are endless and opportunities i see are countless
If i sleep with  a heavy heart , i know when i will wake up , a new door will open up
I know I might not be able to do what i am going in for yet i try , maybe that is where i will finally sigh
I look for happiness in which ever route i take
I wish to be happy, I wish to travel miles
Life is too long a journey and i want to explore places with  smiles
I don't know what i finally want
I just know i want to be happy and satisfied
I wish to be optimistic and build my own tracks and carry beautiful memories in sacks!

Awaiting Miracle.

Magic is when you find peace
magic is when you find the tingling sense of freedom
freedom to be yourself, empower yourself and do what you want to do
without the fear of being judged
Magic is when you know what you are doing is for you, yourself
You are responsible for who you are and who you want to be tomorrow
be the leader of yourself  first to be the leader in the real world.
Stand up for what is right, stand up today uptight
Stand up for your decision.
The day you know ,you can prove it right , no one has the courage to turn it upright.
Believe in yourself and Believe in your own magic
And you will not wait for the miracle to happen.

Highs and lows.

Life is beautiful, it has its highs and lows
When you are low ,nothing seems right
Your life is entangled and so tight
You cant see your future, you dont know what to do next
The only hope is to be optimistic
That this low road will turn back and go up and bring you back to the top.
When you are at the high point, the world seems beneath you, you are the master, you are the star. Some will cherish you ,some will try to bring you down.
Challenge is to be unaffected by them and continue your path , path that brings you highs and lows.

Sometimes we tend to give up, sometimes we make the wrong choices.It is ok to be wrong, because that teaches you what is right.
Also donot hold on to something for too long that it starts overpowering your lifestyle and your thinking. Dont let anything break you, break the ties before it starts doing so. Let it go and know that if it is meant for you , it will eventually come back.
Faith is a very essential part of life, keep faith and move on.

Memories

People will come and people will leave
Sometimes some people leave an imprint in our lives.
Respect them and never forget them.

Happiness lies within you

Many claim to be sad, Many claim to be depressed.


This era is full of people who feel they are unhappy from inside. People look for happiness evrywhere, they search for happiness helplessly and desperately.
Introspect and find happiness within you. Find happiness within the person you are, within your soul that connects your mind and heart.
If you are doing something right now, believe that you are doing it because it is giving you happiness.
If you are reading this right now, agree that it is giving you happiness that is why you are reading it .
If you find yourself repeating something that you did in the past , believe that you are repeating it because it gave you some amount of happiness which you mite have not noticed at that time , but you are noticing it now.
You are responsible for who you are and how you feel , what you feel about something. Nobody is the incharge of that soul that subsides within you, but you yourself.
IF something brings a smile on your face , DO IT  without caring or worrying that you might be judged because everybody has a different perspective and a different thinking. What you think might be judgmental for the other person about whom you are thinking but for you, it might not be a judgmental opinion.
Similarly if somebody thinks something about you , donot take it ina negative light and feel that you are being judged , it is their way of perceiving things. you know who you are and what brings you happiness therfore you will do what is best for you.  YOU LOVE YOURSELF AND THAT IS WHY YOU WILL MAKE YOURSELF HAPPY.

Love to be loved

Everyone wants to be loved , everybody needs love but do they deserve to be loved?

When a person feels he/she is not loved they feel dissapointed and frustrated. They feel nothing is worth enjoying, worth loving, worth caring for only because they are not getting the love and care they crave for.
Everyone should understand inorder to be loved you need to first learn to love.

The art of giving without expecting will give you happiness and making yourself happy will signify the love for yourself.
First love yourself for others to love you.

The word love is a very heavy word in itself.

So lets practice love

1.love yourself : Do things that make you happy, Pamper yourself and treat yourself.

2.Love someone/something unconditionally : practice social service , Raise pets . when you are involved in social service , you cannot expect anything back from the underprivileged but smiles. Their smiles will make you happy and make you feel loved.
Pets also have hearts like we do, you love them and spend time with them, they will love you back

3. Smile : make it a point that you start your day with smiling at someone. Be it your maid , a stranger, a public transport driver .you will learn that you win a smile back that will rejoice your heart

4. Positive outlook : Always keep a positive outlook in life . Be optimistic. If somebody passes a negative comment , just smile and play along so that , that negativity does not affect you in any way.

KEEP NO REGRETS.

It is very important to be independent and confident in today's time.
The times have changed and so have the people. Nobody want to to deal with someone who is unsure , who is not confident. Everybody want to instill confidence in the person he/she is dealing with. It is  very important to be that confident human being that every individual would want to interact with or want to work with.


The easiest way to be a confident person , is to know what you are good at. The world is full of opportunities and you have a huge life to find that one thing that gives you happiness and would ultimately lead to success. If you are a student , i recommend you to take each and every opportunity that comes your way. You have too much on your plate already? Well who cares ? Life is too short to worry about failure, when you say i already have too much on my plate to take up this opportunity that is the day you tell yourself you  have a fear of failure.
Tell yourself, no you donot have that fear and grab that opportunity .Yes it is true that you should set your priorities straight so that you can manage your time well. but that is it only because you have to ace the golden key to success "time management" you should drop an opportunity , if you feel it will come back later.

You should always ask yourself will you regret it , if you let this opportunity go? if the answer is a yes, then obviously you have no other option but to take , because at the end of the day you have to look at yourself in the mirror and not the person or thing you have dropping that opportunity for. you have to face yourself, you will sleep to your own tears at night if you let go an opportunity that you want to take up.
also remember , if you feel you have made a mistake , always stay positive, BELIEVE that whatever happens , happens for the good and  TRUST YOURSELF  that you will not end up making a similar mistake again

BELIEVE that you LOVE yourself and Will do anything to bring that smile on your LOVE's face.

BE HAPPY
SMILE
KEEP NO REGRETS BECAUSE LIFE IS TO SHORT TO REGRET .

Little joys of life

Little things that give me pleasure
I hope i never fail to treasure
The tiny droplets of rain
makes them all go away , be it any kind of pain
the joy of writing , the joy of dance
gives my smile a trans
the cool breeze on my face
Happiness like this is so hard to trace
oh! I embrace this love for life so much
may god never take this smile from my face.

Its time for you to like my Instagram pic!

Time flies and times change. Technology has advanced so much over these years , that its hard to imagine how  the world would be after 10 years. Its amazing how i look back and think that there was a time when i learnt how to use paint on my computer . Yes, the box like structure and Now all of us have minicomputers in our pockets , our smartphones ofcourse!

People now have become more about how their life looks like on the social networking sites. how their facebook page looks like or how their instagram profile looks like. Inorder to make a statement they will have countless followers , they will let the most random people follow their instagram profiles so that they have the maximum likes as compared to their friends and they look "cool".
Had a fight with your mom? well, lets tweet it,
Boyfriend problem? Lets upload a picture with hashtags.
I belong to the same age group, yes i agree i post everyday on my social networking site , here i am not trying to make a statement or i am not judging anybody . I am just amazed to see how the change has crept in and how it will continue to dig in further.

Everyone wants to be accepted by the society , more than the society it is the peer group. Well my friends, if you have noticed the peer group keeps on changing and you transform yourself with the new evolving peer group. Take a minute and think to yourself, how many friends are you still in touch with from your initial grades? I am sure you can either count them on your fingers or you just cant think of any, Thats what i am talking about.

How many facebook friends amoungst the 200 likes of your current profile picture do you really talk to , or even know them personally? You have about 2000 friends on facebook and donot even know them personally and you donot mind sharing your personal pictures and posts , just inorder to get a truckload of likes and show the world how popular and loved you are?