Friday, January 20, 2017

The First in Last Out Principle

It is normal human tendency to get attached to new people as we progress in our lives.
It also a normal tendency to become more cautious about how much we share with people and to what extent we share our thoughts with people whom we meet as we grow up.
Age group of 18- 23 is the age when we meet the most number of temporary people in our lives. We are in our experimental mode and like to make new friends, like and be liked for who we are and what we do.
We want recognition and fame, we want to be 'popular' in our own domains.
As we grow older we meet more new people, but the people who have stuck around with us for more than 3 years on an average, we always count on them and never leave their side.
People make mistakes and even our friends who have been with us for a long time, they make mistakes which we don't want to forgive them for but since we have been together and stuck with eachother through our thick and thin , the mistakes seem very small in size and it is easy to overlook them.

Life follows the rule of first in , last out and not first in , first out. We should never forget the people who come into our lives first (during our initial years of life, when we actually start understanding friendship) are the last ones to leave our side.


3 comments:

  1. I can't believe ypu wrote this..good job! And a very interesting and true thought to ponder upon.

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