Human biengs build and live relationships. They put more efforts in building a relationship than nurturing it.
Cutting the tree called relationship when the bark starts getting thicker is a self defence mechanism that they go through.
They tend to forget they push away the people who care and love them the most.
Relationships are a very integral part of a person's growth and peace of mind. Attaching to a certain person makes a person more aware about himself/herself.
Just like meditation helps you reconnect with yourself and reconnect with your actions in the past , relationships help you know you and the reason for your actions.
Take a minute to remember every person in your life who has made a difference and made you who you are today.
I bet you are related to them. Maybe through past actions you mite have cut the bark of the tree called relationship but remember the roots are still there in the soil.
If you give the tree enough warmth and water you can again grow it back to the height that it had attained earlier.
It mite take sometime but dont let go of it because of your insecurity, inhibitions and defensive nature.
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