Existence

Man is a social animal and he meets plenty of people in his life span.
People come with experiences , every person you meet is an experience in himself.
When you meet someone, he/she lets you know about their personality, their wishes and their experiences and gradually you start relating to their lives. That is how they influence your life and give you an experience.
Today what we are  or how we are, how our personality reflects on others and how we come across is partially influenced by the people we meet in our life span.

God has created every individual a selfish one. This is not a negative way of thinking but  a very practical approach.
for example, a foetus in a mother's womb , even before the baby is born , the baby takes nutrients from it's mother's body inorder to come into existence .
similarly, people have their own selfish reasons be it for a positive impact or negative.
The word selfish ,speaks for itself . "SELF" the initial part of the word reflects the meaning.


If today , your fellow mate does  something which makes you feel that he/she has betrayed you by his/her own selfish reasons , you should not feel bad. This is how life has originated and shall continue until it comes to an end.
Everybody wants to be successful / continue with their existence and in order to continue with their existence they are compelled to wear a mask which hides their selfish motives .
We should accept it as a part of life and not let it affect us by making us sad or leave us in an over thinking zone.

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